Please don't wait for a catastrophe to happen in your life to realize how precious it is.
It is wonderful to have goals and dreams. I have many. The trick is not to become so consumed with them that the you miss out on the opportunities and miracles that make up your today.
It is possible to be both responsible and have joy in your days. Sometimes it just takes noticing, paying attention to the view as you drive to work. Look at people,smile, engage. Often we just pass each other by as though we are all in a trance.
Take a moment and think about some of your happiest moments. Chances are, they are exactly that - moments not big accomplishments, not a whole vacation but rather moments. Now go out and have some fun today. You are worth it. God gave you this "present" unwrap and enjoy it.