Several people have asked me how did I survived the "empty nest syndrome" when my twins went off to college. To tell the truth, I miss Tom and Jim each and every day. I am constantly wishing that I could be more involved in their daily lives.

When your babies are placed in your arms and you look down at their little faces, tiny little hands and their fingers wrap around yours, most Moms feel a love that is beyond description, it is unconditional. I felt that magic on the day my sons were born and each and every day since then.

Every time I have made a wish on a birthday candle or shooting star I have always wished the same thing. Please let me sons(and now I have added "and their families")be safe, healthy, happy and free from harm.

You want to prepare your children to believe in possibles and become the person they want to be. I did my best. I made mistakes, still do. I enjoyed being their Mom, still do.

They may now have their own "nests" but the love continues. They need to be themselves. I like as well as love them and am proud of the men they have become and their priorities.

You start off wanting to teach your children and then you realize the experience of being their Mom taught you. Life is an adventure, rich and luscious with possibilities.

My sons gave me the gift that "home" was where ever I was. It wasn't necessary for me to remain in Tennessee as the yellow haired divorcee that lived on the hill. They gave me a love that makes me feel anything is possible. I can only hope they realize that is the same gift I was giving to them.