As we extend helping hands to the survivors or Hurricane Katrina, it is important to remember 9/11. Our world was forever changed.

Tonight I watched the Discovery Channel's movie in honor of those that died on United Flight 93. I'd seen the coverage and photos of the Pentagon and the World Trade Center. This renacted film based on conversations and tapes, gave me insight into what it may have been like for the passengers and crew on that fatal flight.

Now it is Mother Nature that has created devastaion; the lives of many will never be the same, changed by Hurricane Katrina. The effects will be felt for years to come.

On May 9, 2003 I found a photo that served as a reminder that our lives are forever changing and more often than not, major changes are often out of our control.

It is how we respond that makes the difference and ultimately defines us.

I hope you enjoy this re-run of my blog from years gone by.

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May 9, 2003

Change

Change is perpetual. It is inevitable. If it weren't for change we would have no seasons, no Grand Canyon, and no butterflies. Life without change would be robotic.

Some changes stimulate fear and grief. The sudden storms currently ravishing the Midwest and parts of the South are creating devastating change. The downturns in the stock market have changed the retirement plans of many. The growing unemployment numbers have thrown many people and their families into a state of uncertainty.

Some changes bring great happiness and joy. The birth of a healthy new baby can forever change a family. Moving into a new home can be a dream come true. Taking a fantastic family vacation can revitalize and renew a family's connection to each other and their spirits.

I discovered an old roll of film and found this photo from November, 1987. It is an excellent example of change. It is a reminder that things don't stay the same and that you need to appreciate each moment of life. Gratitude for the present moment is true prosperity. We come with elaborate and sophisticated rationales to justify our actions and end up spending most of our time and energy doing things aren't all that important.

The Twin Towers are no longer here and the lives that were lost on that fatal September 11th have forever changed not only all the lives of their family and friends but all of us. Out of that change has hopefully come a new appreciation of our true heros, the police and fireman and emergency response crews.

Hopefully, from that tragic change we have all learned to embrace the fragility of life. That we live each day as if it were our last on earth, not to be reckless or to abandon your responsibilities but to remember how precious life really is. Life is too important to take it too seriously.

My nephew, Josh, standing with a souvenir Statue of Liberty flame in his hand, has grown into a fantastic man, a college student. Without realizing it, his life has been an inspiration to many including his family and friends. He has experienced many changes throughout his young life and overcome hurdles placed in front of him.

Embrace change. Live your life in the moment. Scatter joy.