MzDavinci

2012-02-25T10:36:00.001-05:00

I love Fridays!

2012-02-24T12:36:00.002-05:00

It is what is below the surface that is really important.

2012-02-23T09:57:00.000-05:00

We only see and interact with that part of a person that shows. None of us knows what is going on with someone else below the surface. That is where true intentions and the core of our character and beliefs lie. We only share a glimpse of that with someone close who knows our heart.

2012-02-22T21:13:00.001-05:00

Been trying to downsize and sell off some of my "stuff".

2012-02-22T09:39:00.000-05:00

I love this. Hope it makes you smile. I will be selling my "stuff" March 3rd at a Spring Market in Largo, Florida and the following Saturday, the 10th at the Rec Center on St. Pete Beach. Come and you can take some of my "stuff" home to live with your "stuff".

Today is the anniversary of when it was discovered I had Endometrial Cancer.

2012-02-21T15:57:00.000-05:00

I am alive today and overflowing with blessings. I recieved a perfect framed picture last Thanksgiving entitled Survivor and Saturday I recieved a fantastic little bracelet that is enscribed "Survivor".

Today I was wearing it when I went to the doctor for my blood tests. Everyone said how beautiful my bracelet was. As wonderful as the compliment was, the best thing was to be alive and represent that it is true.

This looks like one of mine.

2012-02-21T01:13:00.000-05:00

I would love to learn how to sculpt sand.

I do miss Noah, Hope, Jake and Jonah and getting to build sandcastles and play in the Gulf.

When they are here it is so much fun!

I have always believed in God.

2012-02-20T09:50:00.001-05:00

I have never found a religion that has spoken to me. I have been so blessed to have Jesus in my life. It has been the single thing that has seen me through. I believe in being nice. I believe in sin. I believe in the power of forgiveness and understanding. I feel I am a work in progress but know that God always loves me. I have everything I need. I just need to get out of my own way. I don't just believe in miracles, I witness them everyday.

I carry a piece of paper in my wallet and refer to it often. I have had it there for many, many years. It is the reminder of how I want to live my life:

“People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.”

Some days this is easier said than done. I aspire to this behavior.

Below is the video that was the catalyst for my sharing today. It appeared on my son, Tom's Facebook page and I wanted to share it. Most all my life I have kept my strong beliefs and faith private. I have learned from both my sons, Tom and Jim that sharing may help others to find the source of hope.

I have to confess it makes me a little uneasy (smile).

2012-02-19T22:29:00.000-05:00

It is a bit disconcerting to have the doctor say, "You will need to take one of these little pills everyday for the rest of your life." Then I read the label on the prescription bottle "3 refills". Yikes!

2012-02-14T23:29:00.001-05:00

May you enjoy a wonderful week, made up of extraordinary days!

2012-02-13T09:48:00.000-05:00

Are they real or Memorex?

2012-02-10T10:02:00.001-05:00

My sister, Bonnie, shared this cartoon on her Facebook page. I love it.

In this world of technology, it is important to recognize that although "all" friends are important, family and the people whose lives have crossed our paths need at least as much time and attention as the hundreds that we have never met that "befriended" us on Facebook.

2012-02-09T22:55:00.000-05:00

"Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass on a summer day listening to the murmur of water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is hardly a waste of time".
John Lubbock

I am so very excited!

2012-02-09T09:59:00.002-05:00

My little sales and marketing book, has been re-published as an ebook. It is a little out of date but I didn't want to publish the next edition until I saw this book re-published. It is now available to be read on the ipad, Nook and Kindle. It is a true blessing and wouldn't have been possible without the inspiration and support of many. Thank you very much.

The updated version of Sell More will be finished this summer and it is expected that my hope filled cancer book will be ready for the publisher by Easter.

Below is the notification from my publisher. It is exciting!
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Sell More: An Entrepreneur's Guide To Marketing On A Small Budget Strategies That Make A Big Difference by Judy Mckay (Kindle Edition - Sep 26, 2007) - Kindle eBook Buy: $3.99
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Sell More, will do for your business what slow motion did for Baywatch; the ideas included will increase interest in your company. This results oriented book is filled with inexpensive techniques designed to attract new customers, entice them to return often and recommend your product or service to everyone they know. Whether you are just opening your business or need to stimulate sales, Sell More provides the remedy for drooping profits. Filled with proven strategies, Sell More is a practical resource to help you customize your sales and marketing plan. Learn how to maximize your visibility, sales and profitability with minimum expense. Judy writes in a fun uncomplicated style. She recognizes the ever-changing challenges that face today's entrepreneurs. She shares proven strategies that can easily be adapted to fit your unique circumstances and budget. The goal of this book is to serve as a tool that will help you achieve the thriving, profitable business you envision.

2012-02-07T11:29:00.002-05:00

Tonight it was time to re-read an important book, Silver Boxes. It is one of my favorites.

2012-02-07T00:15:00.000-05:00

Lately, it seems that words of judgement, hurtful words are being shared between people who truly care for each other. It is heart wrenching to witness. It was time for me to re-read, Silver Boxes.

In the book, Silver Boxes, Florence Littauer shares stories, biblical quotes and humorous antidotes about the importance of becoming encouragers. That honest kind words are gifts (silver boxes) that can make a positive difference in a person's life. I love that concept. It is not for us to judge others.

I know in my own life, a compliment, a reassuring word, or being remembered can transform my whole day. It can make a wonderful difference.

At one point in the book she shared a story about a family that enjoyed the old song:

Home, home on the range,
Where the deer and the antelope play.
Where seldom is heard a discouraging word,
And the skies are not cloudy all day.

The dad would laugh at how crazy a home on the range must be with all those deer and antelope romping through the living room. The children would laugh at such a thought. Then they would come back to the point of the song, it doesn't matter where you live, if you give encouraging words the skies are not cloudy at all.

True enough, encouraging words can help disperse the clouds of self-doubt and concern.

I have been blessed to have received encouraging words and need to be always mindful that words are powerful. Sometimes giving out a silver box is as simple as acknowledging a person's presence and saying hello.

Thank you from the bottom of heart to all who have acknowledged my presence, never forgotten me, and encouraged me. May your skies be cloud free (except of course, for those white fluffy ones that are fun to watch as they change shapes and move across the sky).

I can't resist loving this commercial.

2012-02-06T10:55:00.002-05:00

Once you have been owned by a Great Dane, you understand Marmaduke and a commercial like this one.

Thank goodness.

2012-02-04T09:53:00.001-05:00

God only made each day 24 hours long because He knew that's all we could handle. When we get into trouble, it is often because we are either hanging on to hours and events from yesterday, or borrowing them from tomorrow.

Rangers slugger Josh Hamilton reportedly suffers relapse.

2012-02-03T11:09:00.000-05:00

I was sorry to hear about this on the radio today. Josh Hamilton's story was one of the ones included in the wonderfully inspiring book, "I Am Second". I pray he can find his way out of the dark. He has an incredible family and my heart goes out to them.

Thanks go out to Barbara Garner for sharing these wise reminders.

2012-02-02T15:49:00.000-05:00

1] Prayer is not a "spare wheel" that you pull out when in trouble, but it is a "steering wheel" that directs the right path throughout.

2] A Car's WINDSHIELD is so large & the Rear view Mirror is so small? Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE. So, Look Ahead and Move on.

3] Friendship is like a BOOK. It takes few seconds to burn, but it takes years to write.

4] All things in life are temporary. If going well, enjoy it, they will not last forever. If going wrong, don't worry, they can't last long either.

5] Old Friends are Gold! New Friends are Diamond! If you get a Diamond, don't forget the Gold! Because to hold a Diamond, you always need a Base of Gold!

6] Often when we lose hope and think this is the end, GOD smiles from above and says, "Relax, sweetheart, it's just a bend, not the end!

7] When GOD solves your problems, you have faith in HIS abilities; when GOD doesn't solve your problems HE has faith in your abilities.

8]A blind person asked St. Anthony: "Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?" He replied: "Yes, losing your vision!"

9] When you pray for others, God listens to you and blesses them, and sometimes, when you are safe and happy, remember that someone has prayed for you.

10] WORRYING does not take away tomorrow's TROUBLES, it takes away today's PEACE.

Happy Ground Hog's Day!

2012-02-02T12:42:00.000-05:00

If moving will help me look like this, I am moving my butt as I celebrate this special day!

On the eve of Ground Hog's Day...

2012-02-01T10:22:00.000-05:00

I received this message from Johnson City, Tennessee this morning. It made me smile. I celebrate Ground Hog's Day every year and it was nice to know that someone I haven't seen in many years remembered.

"The local groundhog call the TV station this morning to say to leave him alone tomorrow because,"You already got Spring" he said.

Yes, it's February and we have sunny days with temps in the 60's. I know that's cold to you folks in the tropics, but when it's the dead of winter in Tennessee and I only have to wear a windbreaker, we're just thrilled."

2012-01-31T20:21:00.002-05:00

The last day of the first month of two thousand and a dozen.

2012-01-31T11:11:00.000-05:00

I feel blessed that during this month: My only health challenge was the sniffles. I have had fantastic calls and texts from my sons as well as other members of my family and friends. I have reconnected with people from my past. The community yard sale was a success. My niece returned safely to the U.S. from her studies abroad. Each of my sons have earned fantastic opportunities and are making a positive difference in the world. Margaret Hogg is making strides to recover from her stroke. I was asked my opinion on someone's writing. I have seen some good and not so enjoyable movies. I have met some new neighbors. There has been a lot squeezed into these first 30 days. Today, the 31st, we once again have postcard perfect day and I am going to head to the beach to work on my books. I am so lucky to have flexibility in my days and not confined to a specific routine.

I am so very grateful to be alive. Especially to hear about the things that are happening in my son's lives and their families. Despite being separated geographically and the fact that both Tom and Jim's families are always on the go and super busy. I appreciate so much when they share what is happening, magically I am part of their lives despite any distance. No doubt reflecting on this first month of the new year and my entire life adventure so far, I must be one of the most fortunate people ever. No wonder I am so very happy and recognize that I am so very blessed.

I hope your New Year has started off well and when you reflect over the events and time that passed in January, your spotlight shines on the things that brought you pleasure and happiness.

Welcome back to my niece, Caitlyn who has been studying in Bali and through-out Asia for the last several months.

2012-01-30T17:12:00.000-05:00

Caitlyn and her boyfriend, Jordan were met at the airport in San Francisco by my sister, Wendy when they returned to the United States. Wendy is currently living in Santa Cruz, California with her new man, Alan. Caitlyn and Jordan will visit there for a few days and then fly back to family in Tennessee. She has one more semester at Wofford College in Spartanburg, SC. She graduates this May.

2012-01-27T19:07:00.002-05:00

2012-01-25T22:39:00.001-05:00

Remembering

2012-01-25T10:58:00.000-05:00

This morning I am feeling restless and wanting to explore new places and have a new adventure.

In the shower, I started to remember some of my past adventures near and far. I have been blessed to see some extraordinary places. Here are my top four.

Arriving at the Grand Canyon, I ran to the look-out only to find the entire view was obstructed by fog. It was magical to see the grandeur of the canyon become visible a little at a time. (This is number 3 on my list)

Number one happened the next day. It was watching the sunrise at the Grand Canyon . I swear I heard angels sing. It was freezing cold but inside I felt a warm glow of peace and extreme happiness.

Number two was arriving on my flight to Niarobi at midnight and looking up at the sky and seeing so many stars that it took my breath away. It was so beautiful. Until that moment, I thought the starry nights at sea, when I was on a cruise, were the most I would ever see. It was so very beautiful and amazing.

Number four was when I was in Japan. One of the sightseeing trips my son, Tom and his wife, Shelia took me to was a magnificient park. I thought the nature that surrounded us was the reward as we walked. Then I saw it, an enormous Buddha. It was so huge. I will never forget it sitting so magnificiently outside for all to visit.

And the nominees are...

2012-01-24T10:12:00.000-05:00

BEST PICTURE

"The Artist" - I haven't seen it. I might go. It would be interesting to see the style movies used to be done. I enjoy going to the movies and have silent movies to thank for starting it all.

"The Descendants" - Saw it but it wasn't my type of movie. I thought George Clooney and the actors did great. I just prefer different. This was like a movie for the Lifetime Channel. On the other hand my sister, Wendy, posted on Facebook that she loved it. That is what is great about movies, music, books and art, there is something for every taste.

"Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close" - I haven't seen this yet. I probably will. I heard Tom Hanks talking about the movie. He said something very provocative. "We know how we felt on September 11th and how the events that day changed everything but do we remember September 10th? We talk about how we should treat each day as though it were going to be our last and be sure the people we love know we care however busy lives and irritations at each other sometimes get in the way and things go unsaid, unforgiven. Maybe we should live each day like we wish we had on September 10th."

"Hugo" - I enjoyed this movie. It was a little slow to start but had a special spirit about it.

"Midnight in Paris" - I saw this movie because I had a free pass. I went back for a second time because I loved it. I will probably buy it when it comes out and gets to the $5.00 bin. It is a magical story. It is one of the first movies from Woody Allen that I have enjoyed. The scenery and feel are wonderful.  It may be that the storyline features a restless author and lets me glimpse some of my favorite artists from the past that charmed me. I am surprised to see it nominated for best picture but loved it. I will no doubt watch it again and again.

"The Help" - Great movie. Enjoyed it. The performances were awesome. This movie definitely deserves to be a Best Picture nominee.

"Moneyball" - I love sports and enjoyed this movie very much. It seems strange that the candidates for Best Picture seem to come from movies that are released late in the year. Some have just barely hit theatres. I wish I could remember the titles of some of the movies I enjoyed during 2011 that captivated my interest. This movie was good, very good but not best of the year.

War Horse" - I haven't seen this movie. I have heard that it is amazing. I tend to stay away from war movies.

I enjoy going to the movies. I enjoy the whole experience: the big screen, the popcorn, sitting in the dark with friends while we are transported to another time or place.  My one criticism and shout-out to the studios making movies would be, "Please don't make everything in 3-D." I don't need my movies to jump out at me and it costs anywhere from $3.00 to $4.50 more to see these shows. They won't let you bring in your own glasses. I have a basket overflowing with them.

Movies I have seen recently and enjoyed: A Joyful Noise (Awesome, I want to get the soundtrack someday), Sherlock Holmes and MI-5 The Ghost Protocol (I loved the action in these movies but think Tom Cruise should keep his shirt on.) Contraband (Had lots of twists, it was a little raw but good) Two movies I saw that I would love to unsee and found disturbing were The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo and Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy.

My nephew, Josh enjoys movies and we have similar tastes but not always. He enjoyed The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. He had read the books.

I am not one for watching all the award shows on TV, so I may miss the Oscars however my thanks go out to the many people who make movies. I enjoy your work. Thank you, please continue.

Postcard perfect weather here on St. Pete Beach today.

2012-01-23T11:02:00.000-05:00

Warm temperatures and sunshine are a fantastic way to start the week.

It is Chinese New Year, the year of the Dragon. We always get Chinese food from the same place. They are closed today. We surprised them yesterday by calling and wishing them an early Happy New Year. It is fun when the people you see regularily at stores and restaurants become part of your FRAMILY (combination of friend and family).

It is also National Pie Day. I love pie. I bought the ingredients to make pies in my muffin tins. I planned on them being "little pies" in honor of the holiday (not to be mistaken as tarts). Upon further reflection, I decided I would prefer to lose weight and become more vigilant about the process than enjoy pie. Consequently, the ingredients have been put aside for another time.

Yard sale a success!

2012-01-21T23:00:00.000-05:00

Now some of my things have nice new homes. The turn-out was terrific. I met some wonderful people. All in all a very nice day.

I am fascinated by Kite Surfing.

2012-01-20T09:32:00.000-05:00

I love to take my writing to the beach and watch people kite surf. I saw this video posted on Facebook today of Sir Richard Branson. The title was "Life begins at sixty." Sir Richard Branson is someone who I admire for his business ingenuity and lust for life. He is a great reminder of "never too late". I hope you enjoy this video too.

The countdown to the sale has begun.

2012-01-19T09:58:00.000-05:00

Tomorrow night from 6PM - 9PM is set-up for the community yard sale on Saturday. Thankfully we have a space in the gym so we can set-up the night before. People selling outside have to be at the site at 6AM to prepare for the sale that begins at 8AM and goes to noon. It is amazing the stuff I have accumulated and in some cases I am finding difficult to sell. My "trash" is still my "treasures". My hope is to make at least $220.00 so I can pay for the spot and still have at least $200. It would be truly awesome and helpful if it would be more. There are lots of items so if everything were to sell the number would be wonderful.

It will all depend on the customers and their interests. The economy here is still awful and from the number of people signed up to participate there may not be anyone left to shop.

Wanderlust

2012-01-18T11:10:00.000-05:00

My neice Caitlyn is traveling the world through Wofford College. I never knew such wonderful opportunities existed. I love to travel, to see new places and meet people and learn about different customs and ways of life. It is exciting that Caitlyn is experiencing so much.

Currently she and her boyfriend Jordan are in Muang Ngoi Neua. According to wiki travel "it a small riverside village in Northern Laos with no permanent electricity and no road access. In the last few years it has become part of the Banana Pancake Trail with rapid construction of tourist infrastructure in response to the increasing influx of visitors. Nevertheless, it remains a low-key destination in a stunning location. Interesting treks can also be done to tribal villages in the area.

The village is only accessable by river. Take the 1-hour public boat from Nong Khiaw (daily 11:00 and 14:00, 20.000 kip) or charter one in Luang Prabang or Muang Khua."

It might not be the first place on my list of destinations I would like to explore however it sounds intriguing.

Caitlyn returns home the end of this month and goes back to classroom learning in February at Wofford. I imagine she will then be suffering from her own flavor of "wanderlust" until she graduates in May and can once again hit the road.

Today will be my every once in a while.

2012-01-17T11:34:00.000-05:00

It may be that our brains have a safety value which only allows us to handle grief, outrage or the ability to keep frightening or horrific scenes and events in the forefront of our minds. It may be that this "safety valve" is what enables us to go on with the responsibilities of everyday life rather than be consumed with emotions and feelings of helplessness.

In the meantime, the people immersed in the disaster can't escape. Today as I listened to the daily news, I found myself thinking of past news stories and wondered what is happening to make things better in those situations: What is the status in New Orleans still recovering from Katrina so many years later? Towns demolished by tornadoes, are they being rebuilt? Where did the people who lost their homes to tornadoes, flood and fire go? What is happening in Japan since the tsunami? What is the status of those nuclear reactors and the brave people who were working at the risk of their own lives to prevent an even worse disaster?What is happening in Haiti, have the people gotten places to live beyond homemade tents?

Beyond the global and national disasters there are times of personal crisis. The person who has lost a loved one gets loving support initially but then people get on with their own lives, unfortunately that may be when then grief has actually set in. Family and friends rally round when someone is ill or has an accident or surgery however afterwards everyone goes on with their own struggles, sometimes leaving the patient alone to rehab and for emotional mending. This isn't because people are bad or uncaring, just the opposite, I think it is because empathy can be overwhelming. If we live dwelling on the unfortunate things that make up the news and our life adventures, then the everyday individual responsibilities everyone has might go undone.

It is just important that every once in a while we stop and when we are counting our blessings take a moment and remember the news of yesterday and see if there is some way we can reach out to help.

If we know someone lost a loved one recently maybe it would be nice to reach out and check on how they are doing. Maybe we can take a moment to check-in with someone who has overcome obstacles or is in rehab or recovering from surgery.

Maybe in our busy worlds, we should take a moment and reach out to people in a personal way. Our brains may have a safety valve that prevents overload and that is good and necessary, however we also have hearts and once in a while we need to let them remind us to pause and show we care.

That is what I am going to do today. May I start by saying to my readers, thank you for taking time out of your busy day to visit my blog. You make me smile. I appreciate you.

Fun day at the fair.

2012-01-15T12:19:00.000-05:00

Yesterday was a busy day. Sorted through things being stored in a container, looking for items to sell at the community yard sale this weekend, January 21st. It is amazing the things a person acquires over the years. I hope others will want them and buy them at the sale. Right now my goal is to downsize so my sons don't have a mountain of "treasures" to dispose of one day. My second goal is to raise money so I have some extra funds to use for bills and hopes for future possibilities. My third goal is to downsize so that I have the flexibility to live in a smaller home.

I love living in this condo and the view is priceless. I am thrilled I get to stay here through 2012. Since I rent, eventually this option may no longer be available.

As I mentioned in an earlier post, this year I am all about change and having less stuff and maybe a little money will increase flexibility.

After sorting, it was on to the Manatee County Fair. It is the perfect "appetizer" before the Florida State Fair opens next month. I always like to combine work with fun so the fair worked out great. It reminded me of the Appalachian Fair I used to go in Gray Station, Tennessee. The only thing that truly surprised me was that instead of having the baked goods on display, they had photos of the entries and winning bakery items.

I didn't go on any rides. The midway always fascinates me at fairs. We think of risk takers as those people who bungee jump from bridges and sky dive or ride rapids or climb mountains or drive race cars. In my opinion, people who get on the rides at Fairs are definitely risk takers.

I think some of the people who get on these rides must have the heart of a dare devil. The rides twist and turn, go up and down and none look very secure. I don't have that kind of courage and faith in their ability not to break and send me hurling to the ground but I do enjoy watching others. On one ride that spun and twisted while rising and falling, going forward and backwards, two sisters caught my attention. The youngest, maybe 8 years old, was having a terrific time, her sister, maybe 13, looked terrified and possibly about to get sick. When the ride was over the young sister shouted, "I want to go again!" Meanwhile her sister carefully got off holding her stomach with a look on her face that seemed to say, "never again."

Pigs raced. Cows and rabbits looked cute. Chickens looked like dinner and Roosters crowed.

I enjoyed seeing the artwork, photographs and crafts on display.  All in all it was a fun time at the fair.

The late afternoon and evening was all about the football playoffs. I had picked New Orleans and Denver to win and unfortunately they didn't. Today I am unloading the "treasures" I found me in the container yesterday (they spent a chilly night in the car). I will clean and price them while watching today's playoff games. I am rooting for Houston and Green Bay today. It will be another blessed day of combining business with pleasure.

Happy New Year!

2012-01-13T09:56:00.000-05:00

Thanks for being here and checking out my latest post. I am going to become more vigilant and post more regularily this year. I have very much enjoyed going back and reading posts from years gone by. In all too many cases, it seems that although the days, weeks, months, and years have passed, I still am trying to accomplish the same things. This may be the year with forward movement.

Happy New Year! It's two thousand and a dozen as someone on TV said, 2012. Are you ready for what is ahead of you? Are you standing by, taking what is handed to you? Are you working to create visions for 2012? This year, I am all about change. I am excited about making some changes in my life, changing my direction. I am looking forward to adding some adventure and risks, to being more grateful and appreciative and becoming more proactive in changing the things I can control and less concerned about the things I can't.

Maybe the full moon this week is working its magic, it feels like there is a really interesting vibe to the universe this week. I've felt it. The people from coolworks.com mentioned it in their Newsletter and it describes perfectly how I feel.

Throughout my life I have learned that there is very little you can control. You never know when you are going to have a flat tire, when you might win the lottery or what might happen next. We only can control our attitude and how we react to life's "surprises". Sometimes the best we can do is to roll with it and as the book says, "Don't Sweat The Small Stuff."

I am excited about the possibilities each day holds and plan to make the bumper sticker, "Just Be Nice" my mantra. I am going to strive to improve my failing confidence by putting myself back into situations I used to relish and now scare me. My energy level may not be what I wish however it is not depleted so I am going to incorporate the strategy that an object in motion will stay in motion (smile). I already know what happens if you slow down, inertia sets in.

What ever your wishes and desires for the new year, I hope they come true. The bottom-line is that I wish myself and everyone good health for if we have this and recognize the blessing, happiness is the outcome.

Happy New Year two thousand and a dozen or whatever you call it. Enjoy!

2012-01-09T10:45:00.002-05:00

A new year has arrived and we even get an extra day.

2012-01-01T11:26:00.000-05:00

Santa Claus

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2011-12-14T13:09:00.002-05:00

A special thank you to Marcus and Cindy Tilley for sharing this with me.

2011-12-14T12:49:00.000-05:00

I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes. I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.

Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.

'Hello Barry, how are you today?'

'Hello, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look good.'

'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?'

'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.'

'Good. Anything I can help you with?'

'No, Sir. Jus' admirin' them peas.'

'Would you like to take some home?' Asked Mr. Miller.

'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'

'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'

'All I got's my prize marble here.'

'Is that right? Let me see it' said Miller.

'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.'

'I can see that. Hmm mmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?' the store owner asked.

'Not zackley but almost.'

'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble'. Mr. Miller told the boy.

'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.'

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me..

With a smile she said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.

When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.'

I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado , but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles.

Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts, all very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband's casket.

Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket. Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one; each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.

Our turn came to meet Mrs.. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.

'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about.

They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size they came to pay their debt..'

'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided, 'but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho.'

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.

The Moral:
We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.

Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~ A fresh pot of coffee you didn't make yourself... An unexpected phone call from an old friend.... Green stoplights on your way to work.... The fastest line at the grocery store.... A good sing-along song on the radio... Your keys found right where you left them.

I wish you good health, happiness and the ability to take notice of the extraordinary happening around you.

Until I can see a Moose in person...

2011-12-05T11:31:00.000-05:00

2011-11-06T10:01:00.001-05:00

I am a tremendous fan of kite surfing. I have never seen it on waves like Hawaii but enjoy watching it at the Skyway and Ft. Desoto. Awesome!

2011-11-02T11:35:00.002-04:00

I came, I saw, I climbed. Then I celebrated, hurray!

2011-11-01T09:52:00.002-04:00

Yikes!

2011-10-30T11:29:00.001-04:00

"What Cancer Cannot Do...

2011-10-30T11:25:00.000-04:00

It cannot kill friendship. It cannot shut out memories. It cannot silence courage. It cannot reduce eternal life. It cannot quench the spirit. It cannot cripple love. It cannot shatter hope. It cannot corrode faith."

In an age when conformity is more and more the norm, this is easier said than done.

2011-10-25T10:19:00.000-04:00

No one ever became great by imitation: Imitation is limitation. Don't be a copy of something. Make your own impression. Dare to be who you are.

A wonderful story:

2011-10-25T10:11:00.000-04:00

An investment banker was at the pier of a small Mexican coastal village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the boat were several large yellowfin tuna. The banker complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took him to catch them.

The fisherman replied, "Only a little while."
The banker then asked, "Why didn't you stay out longer and catch more fish?"
The fisherman said, "With this I have more than enough to support my family's needs."
The banker pressed, "But what do you do with the rest of your time?"
The fisherman answered, "I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siesta with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine and play guitar with my amigos...I have a full and busy life."

The banker scoffed, "I'm a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing; with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat. With the proceeds from the bigger boat, you could buy several boats. Eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman, you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You'd leave this little village and move to Mexico City, then Los Angeles, and eventually New York, where you'd run your ever-expanding enterprise."

The fisherman asked, "But how long will all this take?"
The banker replied, "Fifteen to twenty years."
"What then?" asked the fisherman.
The banker laughed. "That's the best part. When the time is right, you would announce an IPO, sell your company stock to the public, and become very rich; you'd make millions."
"Millions? Then what?"
Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village, where you would sleep late, fish a little , play with your kids, take siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings, where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos." (Author unknown).

Be careful how you use your time. Fact is we need to make a living however we should never lose sight of the importance of living the life we have been given.

2011-10-21T10:02:00.002-04:00

I have lived an extraordinary life. I am living an extraordinary life. I am so blessed.

2011-09-21T10:58:00.000-04:00

It amazes me all the places I have seen, the "baskin robbins" of assorted people I have met and the tremendous variety of experiences I have had and emotions I have felt.

Truly, without question, my life has been and is an adventure. Lucky me to have had this opportunity. I never quite fit. Most of my plans and dreams took detours and required Plan B. That has just been part of it. I am blessed and filled with joy at how lucky I am. My regrets are only that I hurt and disappointed some people along the way. I can honestly say, that was never my intention. I don't think there is anything in my life I would change however there are some times in my life that I wish I had a "do over". I believe when we know better, when we understand things, when we learn more, we can do better.

I think it is cool that Charles Dickens said it best in 1859 and it still applies to people living today:
“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us, we were all going direct to heaven, we were all going direct the other way – in short, the period was so far like the present period."

Life is a gift. I'm glad I got such a big full one.

A story I hadn't heard before. Thank goodness for everyday heroes.

2011-09-20T09:02:00.000-04:00

2011-09-16T18:28:00.004-04:00

Everyone I know. Everyone I love. Everyone is busy, so very busy.

It is so appreciated that this week I got phone calls,texts, messages sent via Facebook, emails, even notes via snail mail and pictures from family, friends and people I haven't heard from in a very long time. I have even heard from people I have interviewed about their cancer experience.

I love newsy notes and am grateful. Time goes by so very fast and I realize that it is often difficult to find time to visit family. It seems if time doesn't stand in the way, money makes it challenging.

I miss my family and friends so much. It was nice to hear about their lives. It seemed to make miles disappear.

Disappointed but remain super excited

2011-09-07T11:47:00.002-04:00

My trip and hike up Stone Mountain has been postponed a week. Oh well, it may be cooler and the leaves may be changing so it may work out to be even better. I just need to reset my personal count down clock.

Funny how turbo powered the days are when you look over your shoulder but when you are excited about something coming up they go slow. Of course, in comparrision to how slow the clock moves when you are in a doctor's office or hospital the time is moving fast. When your in those places it literally seems that time comes to a standstill.

Wishing any readers a wonderful Wednesday. May you enjoy this day.

less than 2 weeks to go

2011-09-06T10:04:00.002-04:00

About 5 years ago I hiked up Stone Mountain with Rob Price when we were canvassing travel agencies around Atlanta. The other members of our group took the Summit Skyride. Frankly that looked terrifying.

I was proud of myself for making it up and down. Surprisingly down was the tricky direction. You have to be careful not to fall because your body picks up speed.

I have wanted to climb it again as a way to prove to myself that despite age, lack of fitness and surviving health challenges I am still up to the task. It isn't a long climb 1.3 miles but it is up and when you combine the climbing with my fear of heights it is a challenge for me. One that I am very excited about taking again in less than two weeks. If weather cooperates I will climb on Sunday September 18. If it doesn't it will be the following Saturday.

When I successfully make the climb up and down it will be fantastic!

Best commercial ever

2011-09-02T09:58:00.001-04:00

2011-08-25T18:07:00.002-04:00

'Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid."
Albert Einstein

Great reminders:

2011-08-22T17:31:00.003-04:00

Forget about your life situation for a while and pay attention to your life?

Gratitude for the present moment and the fullness of life now is true prosperity.

Amazing and inspirational

2011-08-19T11:01:00.000-04:00

Thank you Toyota.

2011-07-12T10:49:00.003-04:00

Some of us aren't into the new "social networking". We enjoy the old fashioned way of social networking, getting out and doing. I appreciate these commercials because they make me feel good.

http://youtu.be/xkljLxddVI4

Coughing hall of fame.

2011-06-29T12:04:00.003-04:00

I have never smoked. I don't have a cold. I do however have an earthshaking, earbusting cough. When I move and/or talk it is triggered. Consequently I am have a stay still sound of silence day. LOL

It happened suddenly and will hopefully leave quickly too.

Mark and Christina moving back.

2011-06-24T10:06:00.003-04:00

Mark was able to go from unemployed to finding a better paying job as a resident manager of a Metro Self Storage Company in LeHigh Acres, FL (near Ft. Myers). He did this in a remarkable short time. Unemployment here in Florida is about 12%. To get one that provided them living quarters and paid more was remarkable.

Less than 12 months later they are relocating to the Metro Self Storage here in Pinellas County. This is more convenient for Christina to be close to her family. They are blessed to have had things work out so well for them. Today is moving day.

Welcome back Mark and Christina.

Quotes I read today that spoke to me. Hope you might enjoy them too.

2011-06-14T10:08:00.004-04:00

"The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain."
Dolly Parton

"Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born."
Dr. Dale Turner

"Never discourgae anyone who continually makes progress, no matter how slow."
Plato

"Don't accept that others know you better than yourself."
Sonja Friedman

"Worry is the misuse of imagination."
Anonymous

I love pictures that show paths or trails going off into the unknown. It sparks my imagination.

2011-06-08T09:27:00.002-04:00

A friend sent me this picture as part of an e-mail. I saved the picture because it is wonderful. I am looking for some direction right now. I have an urge to explore. I would love to find this place. I hope you enjoy it too.

I love this. Have a laugh but unfortunately it is all too close to true.

2011-06-06T10:31:00.001-04:00

If anyone gets in your face this week just tell them, "Have a nice day!"

2011-06-05T23:15:00.001-04:00

Pass along your smile.

I love this. It was shared with me this morning and I wanted to share it with my readers. I hope you enjoy your day.

2011-06-02T10:41:00.005-04:00

~DEATH~ WHAT A WONDERFUL WAY TO EXPLAIN IT

A sick man turned to his doctor as he was preparing to leave the examination room and said, "Doctor, I am afraid to die. Tell me what lies on the other side."

Very quietly, the doctor said, "I don't know."

"You don't know? You're, a Christian man, and don't know what's on the other side?"

The doctor was holding the handle of the door; on the other side came a sound of scratching and whining,and as he opened the door, a dog sprang into the room and leaped on him with an eager show of gladness.

Turning to the patient, the doctor said, "Did you notice my dog? He's never been in this room before. He didn't know what was inside. He knew nothing except that his master was here,and when the door opened, he sprang in without fear. I know little of what is on the other side of death, but I do know one thing...I know my Master is there."
Most simple yet comprehensive explanation of death I've ever heard.

Happy Memorial Day

2011-05-30T17:11:00.004-04:00

The Bay Pines VA here in St Pete, Florida had a moving Memorial Day ceremony this morning. They have placed an American Flag at each gravesite. It is overwhelmingly emotional to view.

Flags of each state were placed around their Veterans Memorial. Beautiful blowing in the breeze.

Ben and Jerry - they have joined me in bubble baths when I needed to destress. They are always invited to my "pity parties."

2011-05-28T22:29:00.002-04:00

Are you looking for a "late night snack"? Try Ben & Jerry's ice cream with that name. It is awesome. Vanilla ice cream with fudge covered potato chips and swirls of caramel. It is the perfect combination of salty and sweet. A portion of the money paid for this ice cream is donated to colleges working with our farmers to get them a fair wage for their crops. Very succulent.

Once again these talented men have made a happy difference.

Memorial Day Weekend

2011-05-28T11:42:00.002-04:00

Memorial Day weekend has forever meant the start of summer to me. It didn't matter if school was still in session. It didn't matter that summer "officially" doesn't arrive until June 21st. To me it was and will always be Memorial Day weekend that heralds the beginning of summer.

It no longer gets dark at 5 o'clock. Spring has done it's work and the grass and trees have returned to a rich green color. Humidity has returned. Temperatures are rising. The pool opens. All indications are that summer has arrived or at the very least it is right around the corner.

Now I get to live in a tropical paradise where it is summertime year round. The pool never closes and the beach is just across the street.

This week-end I not only remember with gratitude the sacrifices of our military but also the fun Memorial week-ends in my rearview mirror.

This week-end I am counting my many blessings.

Exactly!

2011-05-26T09:14:00.002-04:00

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways -
body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOW what a ride!'
Unknown

Crazy couple of weeks. Happily looking forward to the new week ahead.

2011-05-22T17:55:00.004-04:00

Wow, life can come at you like a roller coaster sometimes with unexpected great highs and lows.

As for lows, they are learning experiences. They are also a little mind boggling and sometimes a little painful. I know the saying that "sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me." Unfortunately, not true, words do have a way of hurting. You just have to move on; learn from the experience and trust in the truth.

Happily, the ups of my crazy couple of weeks have been fantastic. Ups definitely are the antidote to lows.

When my AC broke because the overflow water from all the condo's above my unit were backing up and flooding my home, I discoved a text message from my granddaughter, Hope and during the sopping and pumping water even got a helpful text from my son, her dad, Tom that proved helpful. AC and maintence help arrived like the calvary the next day and the problem was resolved. I am now comfy in my cool home.

I learned that someone special to me has been the recipient of money from their colleagues to help them restore their home from extensive fire damage. I had wanted to help but wasn't financially able. It is terrific that insurance and friends have been able to make the positive difference they needed. Progress is slow but it seems certain that after repairs and changes are made the house will be better than ever.

My daughter, Shelia, invited me to attend a conference with her in Louisville in June. She and Tom are even paying for my flight and the cost of the conference. I am so excited about sharing the experience with Shelia and their generosity is very much appreciated. It is wonderful having special things to look forward to.

My other daughter, Carol has been fantastic leaving me newsy voicemails. She never even knew how much they made a positive difference. It has been great.

My grandson, Noah has kept me updated via Facebook and some e-mails. It is wonderful to read how proud he is of his mom's accomplishment getting her MBA.

My son, Jim invited me to join him and his wife, Carol and my grandsons, Jake and Jonah in DC when he goes there for business. It made me smile to overflowing. I love adventures to DC. Right now we are rethinking things because DC is a costly place and Jim and his family are currently planning a trip to visit here in Florida. We have decided the expense might best be used as an investment in fun here in the sun. Again I have a look forward to adventure. Yeah!

I have enjoyed keeping up with the baseball talents of my grandsons, Jake and Jonah and Noah via Facebook. They are very talented. I got a surprise vociemail from Jim yesterday telling me that Jonah wanted to go to Logan's Restaurant. Jim thought it was because he enjoys steak; NOPE. It was because he likes bread. Terrific, that is my favorite food, very cool.

This weekend I heard from my sister, Wendy that she enjoyed a surprise I sent her in California. Thanks to Facebook, I got to share an adventure my neice Dawn was making taking a bike trip in Virgina. Got to see my other sister, Bonnie having fun in Arkansas with her grandchildren. Enjoyed texting with my neice, Valerie. I had a nice voicemail message from my brother, Bob. It has been wonderful to hear from my family. I miss each of them very much. It looks like my neice, Caitlyn is still enjoying Austraila. Her sister, Jasmine is going to California on a special trip because she is so awesome at her work. My neice, Amber's birthday is coming up the end of the month and I got her a little surprise yesterday. My nephew, Josh is going to go for his MBA. It is exciting wondering which school he will select.

My everyday is filled with hope and many blessings. I am so fortunate to have the loving, constant reminder that, "Everything is going to be okay; no matter what."
I am a very grateful lady.

If you find yourself having a roller coaster crazy time of ups and downs, hold on tight. This is the time to put your attention on the many fantastic twists and turns happening in your life.

Congratulations to my daughter, Shelia for getting her MBA.

2011-05-18T16:27:00.000-04:00

Today's gonna be a good day.

2011-05-15T12:02:00.000-04:00

My sister, Wendy is driving cross country to start a new chapter in her life.

2011-05-15T11:36:00.002-04:00

Wishing Wendy safe travels and wonderful adventures.

Cinco De Mayo

2011-05-05T08:13:00.003-04:00

Saw that my daughter-in-law, Carol had posted this picture of Jake on Facebook today. Looks appropriate for the holiday. Jake and his brother Jonah, my son Jim and Carol live in West Virginia and will be enjoying their day. Jim's twin brother, Tom and his fantastic family; wife Shelia and beautiful daughter Hope and talented son, Noah live in El Paso. They live daily with Mexico just across the border. I hope they also have a safe and fun day. I miss my family.

Love bugs are in abundance here in Florida.

2011-05-03T21:30:00.002-04:00

This may not be the best time of the year to drive a convertible with the top down. Yikes! I had bugs in my hair, stuck to my sunglasses and even up my nose and down my throat. Let me make it perfectly clear that lovebugs are not tasty.

For the time being I will have to drive with the top up and the AC on. I will have to rinse these sticky bugs off my car each night.

All in all a tiny price to pay for living in paradise. I am a lucky lady.

Do you ever wake up tired?

2011-04-27T11:48:00.003-04:00

It is one of those days when I feel I am running on empty. My energy is missing. I am out of gas.

One of my greatest blessings is that I have always had lots of energy and an over active enthusiasm gland. Even when I was drooping from chemo, my doctor and nurses told me I was more energetic than most. That always lifted my spirits and made me feel grateful to my parents for giving me a resilent "energy gene".

Usually, exercising and eating some protein fuel me and my energy increases. Could be my stubborn cold has zapped me more than I recognized.

In any case, I am very happy that it is a postcard perfect weather day today. A few gusts of wind but definitely beautiful. I am headed out to enjoy an energy boost from the sunshine as I take a walk on the beach. That is a most excellent cure for anything that ails you (smile). I am a very lucky lady to have this option right outside my door.

May you find ways to celebrate Earth Day by doing something nice for our planet.

2011-04-22T11:51:00.000-04:00

Went to a performance of "Forever Reign" last night at Park Place Wesleyan Church. It was awesome.

2011-04-21T21:25:00.002-04:00

I found the song "Forever Reign" on Youtube and in celebration of Easter I wanted to share it. Happy Easter! May you be healthy and happy.

A laugh for the last day taxes are due.

2011-04-17T09:38:00.001-04:00

"I not only use all the brains I have, but all that I can borrow." Woodrow Wilson

2011-04-15T10:12:00.002-04:00

I love that quote. I live that quote. Brainstorming and sharing ideas is one of my favorite things. It helps to jump start my imagination when it becomes stagnant.

Lately, my mind will think of something but gets lost on its way out my mouth. Thankfully, I have friends who are good guessers and can usually figure out what it is I was trying to say.

When I was going through chemo, I could contribute it to "chemo brain". That is a fog that develops as a side effect from the drugs. Maybe I have chemo brain residue or perhaps, more likely, it is an age thing.

Of course, another explanation, one that I like is that I have been blessed to live such a full life of many varied experiences that sometimes it is brain overload. I simply need to reboot.

In any case, it important to borrow the ideas and brain power of others from time to time. It gives us a refreshing new point of view.

In life it would be nice to get "do overs."

2011-04-14T15:20:00.002-04:00

Here are some fun "Out Takes" from the ETrade baby commercials. I hope you enjoy. We all do better when we know better.

Sometimes you need to try, try again.

M & M World

2011-04-13T16:57:00.002-04:00

It was terrific to see that my son, Tom and his family went to M & M World while they were in Las Vegas.

I got to visit the one in Orlando for my birthday.

It is fun to know that my family enjoys the same things that make me happy. Somehow it makes the miles between us disappear. I am so glad that Tom, Shelia, Hope and Noah enjoyed a fun Spring getaway.

I found this little video of the Las Vegas location. It looks like it may be a wee bit bigger than Orlando however mostly the same. A fun place.

I am inspired by my brother's amazing resilence, tenacity, and ability to overcome life's challenges.

2011-04-06T17:16:00.004-04:00

"We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand."
Randy Pausch

Each of us must face obstacles, lifes's challenges. Sometimes we need to be like Rocky. He didn't win every fight but when he was knocked down he got back up.

As I have mentioned before I love Thomas Edison, not because he invented the light bulb and I don't like being in the dark, but because when asked how he kept going after more than 2000 failures he said "It wasn't about failing. It was just a 2000 step process."

I am inspired by people who overcome obstacles. They don't waste time beating themselves up over "if only" they learn and move forward. This is much easier said than done.

After all in the end, the most precious thing we have in our lives isn't our job or things it is our time. We need to live each day with zest and enthusiasm finding a reason for joy and hope no matter what the circumstance because one day we may find that you have less time than you think.

My brother inspires me because despite all the hurdles, obstacles and challenges he has faced in his life he gets up each morning ready to seize the day and the possibilities that lay ahead.

I think this interview will give you a smile. I enjoyed it on one of my favorite shows Top Gear.

2011-04-05T17:11:00.001-04:00

A most important 4 letter word.

2011-03-30T10:17:00.004-04:00

Thanks to Paula Rizk for sharing this story.

2011-03-24T11:05:00.004-04:00

It is fun when a story triggers a memory that makes you smile.

Burned Biscuits - Author Unknown

When I was a kid, my Mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. I remember one night in particular when she made breakfast after a long hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my Mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed. Yet all my Dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my Mom and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every bite!

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my Mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits and I'll never forget what he said, "Honey, I love burned biscuits."

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired and besides a little burned biscuits never hurt anyone."

I love that story. It reminded me of how my own Mom sometimes fixed breakfast for dinner and it was great. It reminded me how my Dad loved to put jelly or marmalade on anything and everything.

In particular I remember when my Mom had baked a delicious, beautiful lemon meringue pie and much to her chagrin she witnessed my dad put orange marmalade on it. Craziness ensued as she threw some pie at my dad and he reached in the jar and chased my Mom with a handful of marmalade destined for her hair.
We all laughed so hard. It was a lesson learned: You can put jelly on anything BUT not on my Mom's lemon meringue pie.

I miss my parents and am forever thankful I got to be one of their daughters.

JUST STAND UP! Mariah, Beyonce, Rihanna, Miley, Leona & more

2011-03-23T10:46:00.000-04:00

Time for Spring Cleaning of our brains. Sort through the clutter and take action.

2011-03-22T12:30:00.002-04:00

"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." Maria Robinson

Get an start on "Spring Cleaning" your mind. De-clutter and discard the excuses and negative thoughts. Sort through the brain clutter and surprise yourself! Instead of seeing problems and limitations stretch your imagination and envision new opportunities and challenges. Take ownership of your attitude. Are you compromising, sacrificing or settling for something less than what you really want?

Breathe, create affirmations that will help you think more positively. Take action.
You no doubt make a positive difference in the lives of others. Now is the time for you to make a positive difference in your own life.

Happy First Official Full Day Of Spring!

2011-03-21T09:51:00.004-04:00

I love this day. Just as Ground Hog's Day is a day that reminds me to be hopeful about the future and believe good things are coming, the arrival of Spring reminds me that life is filled with new possibilities.

I hope you enjoy this special day and have a healthy, happy Spring that awakens you to new possibilities.

'Supermoon' Rises: Biggest Full Moon in 18 Years Occurs Saturday Night

2011-03-19T11:14:00.005-04:00

Thanks to Yahoo News for the following text:

At its peak, the supermoon of March may appear 14 percent larger and 30 percent brighter than lesser full moons (when the moon is at its farthest from Earth), weather permitting. Yet to the casual observer, it may be hard to tell the difference.

The supermoon will not cause natural disasters, such as the Japan earthquake, a NASA scientist has stressed.

Spotting the supermoon

The moon has not been in a position to appear this large since March 1993.

I am happy that this same amazing moon will be shining over those I love and miss that are miles away. May they all be safe, happy and healthy and know how very much they are loved.

Have you seen the commercial of the guy who is told he accidentally hit "reply all" and goes nuts?

2011-03-18T10:43:00.002-04:00

In this age of technology we all need to be careful when sending messages. I came across this article and had to laugh.

"Consider the case of the Illinois man who left the snow-filled streets of Chicago for a vacation in Florida. His wife was on a business trip and was planning to meet him there the next day. When he reached his hotel, he decided to send her a quick email. Unable to find the scrap of paper on which he'd written her email address, he did his best to type it in from memory.

Unfortunately, he missed one letter and his note was directed instead to an elderly preacher's wife, whose husband had passed away only the day before. When the grieving widow checked her email, she took one look at the monitor, let out a piercing scream and fainted. At the sound, her family rushed into the room and saw this note on the screen:

Dearest Wife:
Just got checked in. Everything's prepared for your arrival tomorrow.
P.S. Sure is hot here

Surprised this morning to find out I am in an ESPN Tournament.

2011-03-17T09:47:00.001-04:00

My son, Jim surprised me by posting my brackets along with his family's on this site. http://games.espn.go.com/tcmen/en/group?groupID=188448

It will be hilarious if I do well. My son, Tom's children Hope and Noah are excellent basketball players as are Jim's sons Jake and Jonah. Maybe in the future I will have grandchildren playing college basketball.

I've noticed...

2011-03-16T10:50:00.003-04:00

When I have been in the grocery store recently, I have seen Spring Breakers checking out and noticed a pattern.

Teenagers are buying soft drinks, cereal,chips and cookies.
Adults (college age) are buying the same things but add beer and water.
Families are buying the same and adding sandwich fixings, to the soft drinks, water and beer, cereal, milk, chips and cookies.

Every group also goes two doors down and gets pizza to take back to their rooms.

Spring Breakers and the NCAA Men's Basketball playoffs are helping our economy on St Pete Beach. Hotels, restaurants, souvenior stores, putt putt and even our grocery stores are benefiting. Just the boost we need.

Thank you visitors. May you enjoy our sunshine and sugary white beaches and return often.

My brackets are done

2011-03-15T11:04:00.004-04:00

I have filled out my brackets. I have Ohio State, Duke, Pittsburgh and Kansas going to the Final Four with Ohio State playing Pittsburgh in the final with Pittsburgh the champion.

New appreciation

2011-03-13T11:28:00.004-04:00

I have a new appreciation for the people who participate in the Biggest Loser TV Show. I have watched them undergo tremendous, vigorous training sessions. Day after day they put their overweight bodies through aerobic and weight training and general abuse burning calories.

Last week I began my own attempt to move down the number on my scale. My doctor has said I have a hypothyroid condition and what I have been doing has merely kept me from gaining so I am taking it up a few notches.

After the first 3 days YIKES! my body was not happy. Pain and difficulty moving all took place. I have a new appreciation for the men and women who face the challenges of the Biggest Loser. It is far easier to watch from the couch than to actually get my butt up and join in. I want to lose and get more fit. The health advantages "outweigh" the difficulties.

Maybe next week I will be posting success. I am going to make the effort.

Earthquakes and a Tsunami devastated Japan today

2011-03-11T21:47:00.002-05:00

Thank goodness for technology. I am one of those who says it has its pros and cons. It helps you be in contact with people despite the miles or time zones but a few words sent by text, e-mail or via Facebook can be, sometimes, impersonal.

Today was a perfect example of the benefits of technology. People were able to let family members on the other side of the world know they were safe. We got to witness the devastation first hand.

My prayers go out to all effected and in harms way. May those that are trapped be found.

I am blessed to be warm and safe. Many in Haiti are still living outside or in makeshift tents. Now many in Japan are homeless. I feel blessed to have a home and know that my family members are also safe.

Great Reminder

2011-03-08T20:54:00.001-05:00

"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending."
Maria Robinson