Change


Change is perpetual. It is inevitable. If it weren't for change we would have no seasons, no Grand Canyon, and no butterflies. Life without change would be robotic.

Some changes stimulate fear and grief. The sudden storms currently ravishing the Midwest and parts of the South are creating devastating change. The downturns in the stock market have changed the retirement plans of many. The growing unemployment numbers have thrown many people and their families into a state of uncertainty.

Some changes bring great happiness and joy. The birth of a healthy new baby can forever change a family. Moving into a new home can be a dream come true. Taking a fantastic family vacation can revitalize and renew a family's connection to each other and their spirits.

I discovered an old roll of film and found this photo from November, 1987. It is an excellent example of change. It is a reminder that things don't stay the same and that you need to appreciate each moment of life. Gratitude for the present moment is true prosperity. We come with elaborate and sophisticated rationales to justify our actions and end up spending most of our time and energy doing things aren't all that important.

The Twin Towers are no longer here and the lives that were lost on that fatal September 11th have forever changed not only all the lives of their family and friends but all of us. Out of that change has hopefully come a new appreciation of our true heros, the police and fireman and emergency response crews.

Hopefully, from that tragic change we have all learned to embrace the fragility of life. That we live each day as if it were our last on earth, not to be reckless or to abandon your responsibilities but to remember how precious life really is. Life is too important to take it too seriously.

My nephew, Josh, standing with a souvenir Statue of Liberty flame in his hand, has grown into a fantastic man, a college student. Without realizing it, his life has been an inspiration to many including his family and friends. He has experienced many changes throughout his young life and overcome hurdles placed in front of him.

Embrace change. Live your life in the moment. Scatter joy.

The most destructive habit..............................................Worry

The greatest Joy................................................Giving/Sharing

The greatest loss.......................................Loss of self-respect

The most satisfying work.....................Helping others/Teaching

The ugliest personality trait....................................Selfishness

The most endangered species............................Great Leaders

Our greatest natural resource....................................Our youth

The greatest "shot in the arm"...........................Encouragement

The greatest problem to overcome......................................Fear

The most effective sleeping pill........Peace of mind/A happy heart

The most crippling failure disease.................................Excuses

The most powerful force in life.............................................Love

The most dangerous pariah.......................................A gossiper

The world's most incredible computer...........................The brain

The worst thing to be without.............................................Hope

The deadliest weapon...............................................The tongue

The two most power-filled words......................................"I Can"

The greatest asset...................................................Confidence

The most worthless emotion..........................................Self-pity

The most beautiful attire...............................................A SMILE

The most prized possession...........................................Integrity

The most powerful channel of communication.....................Prayer

The most contagious spirit........................................Enthusiasm

The most important things in life..............Faith & Family& Friends

To the world you might be one person, but to one person you might be the world.

It's unfortunate but true (smile).


"Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterward." Vernon Law